I really need to figure out whats best.... my friend is right... it has been over a year and Tiff is still with Jim... maybe that is an indication that she really doesnt want to be with me. I cant stay in this position. Something has to be done... whether she breaks it off with Jim or I find someone new... either way, something has to be done. Not only that but it was AFTER things got serious between me and tiff that she decided to get engaged... it wasnt like she was engaged and then fell in love.... if she really loved me, she wouldnt have gotten engaged... maybe it is over... maybe thats just what im missing and tiff just keeps pretending its not over because she doesnt want to lose me as a friend.... I cant be played like this though. Something has to be done.